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She’s not hot your mind is….

June 17, 2010 4 comments

ink painting by- Chanu wick

When we see an object…..oops sorry my bad. Let’s take a girl as an example.  We find that she’s hot, sexy, romantic, naughty etc. but did we ever thought whether that hotness is really in her body or in our mind? I’ll show you from an example. Let’s say your g.friend is so hot, sexy and your mom consider too much about disciplines. Think about a situation where your g.friend starts dancing half nude in your house. What things will come to your mind? I doubt whether you’ll remember about your mom at that time. 😀

What comes to your mind is that she’s so damn hot and you start dance with her. Rest I leave it to you to decide. 😉

But when your mom comes there, what comes to her mind is that your g.friend is a dirty slut and you know the rest. She gets too much temper and get into your gal.

How come two different people think about same object (girl) in 2 ways if that object is specific? If we define her as a TOTALLY HOT object, how come some other define her as an annoying object? Whose appearance might cause them loose their temper?

Let me give you another example. Assume your mom reveals that your g.friend is the murder of your father or some one you loved so much. What comes to your mind? Will that girl be the same HOT object as earlier or you get damn anger on her?

It’s just because that your mind decide about the object from its appearance and you feel that the object is HOT or sexy. That’s why you like the girl you pass by and your friend doesn’t perhaps.

When you understand this you’ll realize that your eyes have been deceiving you until now, that you were stuck in an illusion thinking that objects are really worth and you crave them because you believed that there’s something in them. But really they haven’t. Your mind misleads you and will do forever if you don’t believe this.

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The illusions…………

My mind runs through various things,

many imaginations at once,

but there’s nothing I can use,

all are deep shit…try me.

Eyes seen hell of things and keep on,

many illusions in this artificial world,

well most of them are sweet,

ask me about the girls…..

Ears are filled with noises,

screaming, thunder, f**k you’s, love you’s,

never get rid of them until I become deaf,

sweets me or make me evil.

Your fragrance lifts me to heaven,

farts make me hard to breathe,

wearing ‘eau de toilette’ or ‘the toilet smell’,

it almost suffocates me to death.

Tell me Chinese are delicious,

+1…ain’t gonna doubt on that,

well…it makes your tongue divine,

and your entire body a hell soon.

You fill up my senses on bed,

so sorry I was drunk unconscious,

btw I am glad that it happened so,

rather dying as a virgin.

Well….you achieved all your dreams,

optical illusions in this world,

tell me are you done???

you’ve got all you want as you want???

I bet you not…………………………

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Are we in the right track? Do we walk blind?

It has been 2599 years since Lord Buddha’s parinibbana (death). Tomorrow is Wesak full moon poya day, from which start the year of 2599. Next year will be the 2600th year. It makes really sad when it seems that we all heading to the darkness again. Far beyond the light that Lord Buddha taught before 2600years ago. But yet we are not totally screwed up, the worst is yet to come. We all loosing the fact that everything on this earth is not the way we like it. Though we crave for something, though our immense desire will get what we want, one day we’ll feel a hole in it. We might feel this is not enough or that’s not what we really want.

Buddhism is not taught as a religion. It’s a philosophy, rather it’s the conventional truth that none can ever break. If you think I am bulshitting let me know if any scientist ever proves a teaching of Lord Buddha is wrong.  People think Buddhism has many laws to follow and it’s a mess. Buddhism gives the freedom to choose, not by force. But from your own. People think that they are Buddhists since their parents are called as Buddhists, and they put label on themselves as Buddhists. A Buddhist is not the person who tell he is, but the one who believes that every effect has a cause. Though your parents are not Buddhists and if you believe in that, you are a Buddhist.

What we hear now as dhamma is mostly modified or corrupted. Since most of us are not willing to believe what we know is false, no one will consider. But what we need to do is use dhamma practically and reveals ourselves what is the truth. We don’t want to follow or believe anyone but our own practice.

The real anapanasathi meditation technique.

The real anapanasathi is not just breathing conscious. As the Lord Buddha’s dhamma it is, knowing when ever we get desire (raga), anger (dwesha) and dumbness/blindness (moha). Catching relevant imagination is called getting breath in, which means understand the bad effect of sticking to those feelings and good effect of getting rid of those. And getting rid of these feelings is called breath out. Well you might not believe me now, since I just made a change to the traditional anapanasathi meditation method that you used to know.

Lord Buddha told us not to believe what we hear, but to know the truth through practice. If u still doubt, let me know the result you gain by just breathing in and out conscious? I must admit that it really makes your mind relaxed and so calm, no doubt on that. But that’s not what we really need. We need to get rid of this loop, the repetition, the life cycle. But why??? Why we should end this life? Am I nuts?? Leave this beautiful world?? This amazing life?? Yeah why should we??

Yes you are correct. This world and life we live is so damn beautiful, amazing, and fabulous. But let me know what we get after all? Eventually we all die. Death doesn’t count weather you’re the president or you’re the most powerful human on earth. Do we take any gatherings we had in our life when we die? Money? Educational certificates? Potential? Beauty or properties? What really matters is what we do and what our attitude is. Nothing else matters.

A way to go my friends. Wish you all success in finding the light……….

By sermons from Venerable Waharaka Abayarathanalankara thero. (Information is only available in sinhala)

The Final Destination

December 6, 2009 2 comments

yes I am talking about the movie The Final Destination 4. first of all I should admit that it’s a horrible movie to watch. I never thought that it’ll be so freaking that much.

Quite like the Dejavu movie.

it’s a movie which takes us to a far,deep imagination. It’s our destiny which decide everything. What ever we do, where ever we hide we can’t survive from death which brings us by fate. We gotta go when our time is up. No matter how rich we are, how much important we are to the world. Because our destiny don’t take those measurements into consideration.

This remind me of my friend, I was bit scared to travel in buses , when there was war here in SL. I was so aware of people and things when I was in a crowded place. But not my friend.

He told me, disregarding the fact that how much we cared or be aware of our safety, when the time comes we should go.

Well that is what I heard from Dhamma. Even if we hide in a steal cage, even if we hide in the middle of sea, even if we hide in a rocky mountain, still we can’t stop the death. No one’s immortal.

So we’d better get the most of what we have, forgetting the bitter past lets face to the future in optimistic way. Lets help the people who need help. Money not what we take after our death, to the next birth. If you believe in Rebirth , it’s our deeds. What we did through our life time.

Immortality is far beyond the topic, I don’t believe in immortality. Even I don’t think that scientists will invent medicine or theory for immortality. Even if they does, I don’t wanna continue this painful life so long.

We get what we deserved. So be happy for what we got. Live your life happy.

Morons and the superstition…

December 2, 2009 9 comments

Sometimes I feel really bad for people who talk about things that they really not heard of. They are called morons. As I remember its been a while after I met my 1st moron in blogging who called her as Rehani girl, now who even blocked putting comments on her blog, really tell me what is the use of keeping a blog that don’t allow comments? Kind of weird.

Usually I don’t like to comment or argue with morons. But you know some times I feel odd for not replying them, then at next moment after replying I feel I was stupid.

Some one trying to be a feminist talking about woman rights. Well it’s not stupid as far as that person who called him self a terrorist don’t mention religious sarcasm.

(*click on the above link only if you can read sinhala, because that post is in sinhala.)

Buddhists around the world, reply me to this. He’s asking why Buddha told that women can’t attain Nirvana. But he’s loosing the fact that women can get rid of the life cycle even attain arahath. And well he’s not aware of the fact that no one can attain Nibbana within a single birth. It’s a result of long term process called“paramitha”. So if some one have completed attain the essential “paramitha” his/her next birth will be a male birth.

So that he can attain Nirvana in that birth.

He’s claiming to Buddhists that they don’t respect women’s . And Buddhists underestimate other religions saying they don’t respect women. It’s not like that. Buddhism is not just a Dhamma or a Religion. It’s a philosophy, the conventional truth of the world.

I feel so sad of those morons who trying to underestimate Buddha’s teachings, since even scientists couldn’t prove that it’s fake what Buddha taught.

Regardless of the fact that I am a Buddhist, I am a believer in Buddhism since it’s the truth. Even thousands of people do. Buddha taught not to believe his teachings if you found it impractical, so he taught us to research and find the truth. Well he did taught about the society, about the present society and about the future too.

It’s not necessary that you should be a Buddhist to believe Buddhism. Buddha taught that his teachings are the path to success, to stop the life cycle, the unstoppable pain and sufferings we undergo.

But of course any one can choose the path to hell cause there are two kinds of people in this world, simple as this..

who deserved the heaven and who deserved the hell. 😀

Really why do people talk about things that they not aware of? Even they don’t like to read, research and know about the things they don’t know.

*can’t read sinhala? Get the unicode here.

The Conventional Truth……………………..

Do you ever thought that we gonna leave this world one day? This laughter, celebrations, sufferings will come to an end one day? We don’t know when it’ll be, today, tomorrow, next month? That can happen at anytime, whenever, where ever we are.

No one can change the fate, our destiny. Did you watch the movie “Premonition”? Even the lady saw the future that her husband will die, she couldn’t save him.

Nothing is permanent in this world, whatever we got with us, who ever we are meant to be, we all gonna face that unconditional truth of the world. How much we earned, how much we get promoted we all gonna lay down under a grave one day. We not gonna take any single coin or note ($) with us when we leave.

All we take is what we’ve done in our life time. The good and bad deeds we performed. The way we live is what really matters. It’s not where or how long we live.

We do all the cravings and bullshit just for this small life time, but what we really gained? HAPPINESS?

Do we really satisfy about what we got now? HELL NO!!!

But do you think even if we get 10 or more times wealthy than present we’ll be satisfied? Again NO.

Just because we crave for things and we crave for life.

Why should we crave for all things if we gonna die one day? If we gonna leave them one day? No one is immortal in this world. We all leading a meaning less journey. The best way to lead a meaning full life is to help people when ever we can without pulling their legs when they trying to climb the ladder of life.

That’s how we can gain true happiness, leading honest and simple life.

Help the people who really need your help. At least you can save innocent lives of animals.

Love the environment. It’ll protect you.

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Not for your stomach…..for your heart!!!!! Don’t eat a mother who feed the whole world.

June 11, 2009 3 comments

Tel me frankly, what exactly you feel when you see a female cow feeding her calf in the early morning?

Do you feel like killing her and eat her breast? But there are people on this earth who doing that. The milk which come from her breast is her blood turned to milk because of her tenderly love towards her calves. This is what exactly our mothers do when we born. Did you ever felt like killing her and eating her breast? I am not quite sure that it won’t happen in near future under this sun.

What do we expect by eating the meat of that innocent animal that eats grass? Is that the more strength you need? Feel you’ll be healthier cutting breast of a feeding mother? And let her calves deprived of milk that you drank hanging on your mothers breast when you small?

Guys, mental strength is more powerful than physical strength. Presently most of the people are physically fit, but not mentally.

Did you ever tried to look at the eyes of a cow when it’s going to be killed? Pleading mercy from us? It’s so pathetic guys.

We grab her milk which is pumped for her calves and then we kill her for meat.

How can we show such cruelty to a feeding mom?

Think awhile guys!!!!

Why should we eat the meat of that innocent animal that never harms us????